Surviving Domestic Violence: Rebuilding One's Life

Abstract

The purpose of this study was to contribute to occupational therapists' understanding of the experience of domestic violence, its impact on the lives of women, and the needs of these women as they journey towards independent and abuse-free lives. A phenomenological design was used to explore the experiences of five women living at a battered women's shelter and five women who had been at the shelter and were now living on their own, free of abuse. Five themes emerged to describe the women's experiences of rebuilding their lives: (1) "You owe yourself a life," (2) "It's really all about connecting the dots," (3) "I don't have an ounce of time to myself," (4) "It gets hard," and (5) "That was the road I traveled but this is now the road that I'm on." The experiences of these women compel the occupational therapists to pause and reflect upon their role in working with survivor's of domestic violence.