Women's attitudes toward forming new partnerships in widowhood: The search for "your own someone" and for freedom

Abstract

This text is based on an analysis of 20 biographical interviews with women who are both retired and have been widowed. The text discusses women's attitudes toward beginning new intimate relationships and the kinds of partnerships some of them have formed in old age. The author discusses the role of gender and gendered behavior in the institution of marriage as an important factor influencing women's attitudes toward remarrying. The experience of being widowed is an important transition that, besides trauma and difficulties, also presents an opportunity to escape from the previous gender norms and expectations. The significance of these changes, which often open up opportunities for alternative forms of self-fulfillment, become part of the strategies that women select when entering future partnership arrangements.

Keywords: Gender; intimate relations; old age; remarriage; widowhood.