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. 2023 Apr 4;13(1):5497.
doi: 10.1038/s41598-023-31502-1.

Love and affectionate touch toward romantic partners all over the world

Agnieszka Sorokowska  1 Marta Kowal  2 Supreet Saluja  3 Toivo Aavik  4 Charlotte Alm  5 Afifa Anjum  6 Kelly Asao  7 Carlota Batres  8 Aicha Bensafia  9 Boris Bizumic  10 Mahmoud Boussena  11 David M Buss  12 Marina Butovskaya  13 Seda Can  14 Antonin Carrier  15 Hakan Cetinkaya  16 Daniel Conroy-Beam  17 Rosa María Cueto  18 Marcin Czub  19 Seda Dural  14 Agustín Espinosa  18 Carla Sofia Esteves  20 Tomasz Frackowiak  19 Jorge Contreras-Garduño  21 Farida Guemaz  11 Ivana Hromatko  22 Herak Iskra  15 Feng Jiang  23 Konstantinos Kafetsios  24 Tina Kavcic  25 Nicolas Kervyn  15 Nils C Köbis  26 Aleksandra Kostić  27 András Láng  28 Torun Lindholm  5 Zoi Manesi  29 Norbert Meskó  28 Girishwar Misra  30 Conal Monaghan  10 Jean Carlos Natividade  31 George Nizharadze  32 Elisabeth Oberzaucher  33 Anna Oleszkiewicz  19   34 Ariela Francesca Pagani  35 Vilmante Pakalniskiene  36 Miriam Parise  37 Marija Pejičić  27 Annette Pisanski  38 Kasia Pisanski  19   39 Camelia Popa  40 Pavol Prokop  41 Ruta Sargautyte  36 Shivantika Sharad  30 Franco Simonetti  42 Piotr Sorokowski  19 Michal Mikolaj Stefanczyk  19 Anna Szagdaj  43 Meri Tadinac  22 Karina Ugalde González  44 Olga Uhryn  45 Christin-Melanie Vauclair  46 Gyesook Yoo  47 Maja Zupančič  25 Ilona Croy  48   49
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Love and affectionate touch toward romantic partners all over the world

Agnieszka Sorokowska et al. Sci Rep. .

Abstract

Touch is the primary way people communicate intimacy in romantic relationships, and affectionate touch behaviors such as stroking, hugging and kissing are universally observed in partnerships all over the world. Here, we explored the association of love and affectionate touch behaviors in romantic partnerships in two studies comprising 7880 participants. In the first study, we used a cross-cultural survey conducted in 37 countries to test whether love was universally associated with affectionate touch behaviors. In the second study, using a more fine-tuned touch behavior scale, we tested whether the frequency of affectionate touch behaviors was related to love in romantic partnerships. As hypothesized, love was significantly and positively associated with affectionate touch behaviors in both studies and this result was replicated regardless of the inclusion of potentially relevant factors as controls. Altogether, our data strongly suggest that affectionate touch is a relatively stable characteristic of human romantic relationships that is robustly and reliably related to the degree of reported love between partners.

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Conflict of interest statement

The authors declare no competing interests.

Figures

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Figure 1
Partner Affectionate Touch Frequency across Four Types of Touch Behaviors (i.e., Embracing, Stroking, Kissing, and Hugging One’s Partner). Note Error bars represent standard errors.
Figure 2
Figure 2
Partner Affectionate Touch Frequency on Weekdays and Weekends. Note Boxplots represent interquartile range of given Partner Affectionate Touch Frequency indices.

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