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. 2025 Nov;51(11):2183-2199.
doi: 10.1177/01461672241239122. Epub 2024 Apr 24.

Relationships on a Pedestal: The Associations Between Relationship Pedestal Beliefs, Fear of Being Single, and Life Satisfaction in Single and Coupled Individuals

Brittany E Dennett  1 , Yuthika U Girme  1
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Relationships on a Pedestal: The Associations Between Relationship Pedestal Beliefs, Fear of Being Single, and Life Satisfaction in Single and Coupled Individuals

Brittany E Dennett et al. Pers Soc Psychol Bull. 2025 Nov.

Abstract

The fear of being single can put people at risk for worse personal and relational well-being. The current research moves beyond individual-deficit models by exploring whether endorsement of relationship pedestal beliefs-the belief that people need to be in a relationship to be truly happy-is associated with greater fear of being single. Across four studies (N = 641 single individuals and 256 coupled individuals), single individuals' endorsement of relationship pedestal beliefs was associated with greater fear of being single, and greater fear of being single was associated with lower daily life satisfaction (Studies 1-4). Coupled individuals' endorsement of relationship pedestal beliefs was also associated with greater fear of being single, and greater fear of being single was associated with lower daily life and relationship satisfaction (Study 4). These findings highlight how people's endorsement of societal beliefs that place relationships on a pedestal may contribute to fears about singlehood.

Keywords: fear of being single; life satisfaction; relationship pedestal beliefs; singlehood; well-being.

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Declaration of Conflicting InterestsThe author(s) declared no potential conflicts of interest with respect to the research, authorship, and/or publication of this article.

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Theoretical Model Illustrating the Associations Between Endorsement of Relationship Pedestal Beliefs, Fear of Being Single, and Life Satisfaction
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